January Book.....Done

OK, I have finally finished the book! I should have read 2 chapters a day to make sure I would finish in time. Anyway, the book was amazing!! I learned so much about men, and my God given wifely role. I recommend this book to anyone that wants to improve their marriage. Below I have written little snippets that went to heart while reading. It is not the whole book. There is much more than what I list. I recommend reading the whole thing. It is heart changing!!

Making Your Husband Feel Loved


Chapter 1: Accept the Challenge Admit that you are not perfect, and admit that your husband is not perfect.

Chapter2 : Little Things Mean a Lot Learn to stop, look, and listen to your husband.

Chapter 3: Loving Him His Way You have to tell him and show him you love him in ways he can understand.

Chapter 4: Learn What to Expect From Your Relationship Our relationships with each other reflects our relationship with God.

Chapter 5: Quityerbellyaching! Count your husbands blessings, not his shortcomings.

Chapter 6: Taking Care of Daddy We should not take on the responsibility for the relationship between father and child.

Chapter 7: Six Ways to Say " I Love You" 1.Let him know he is your primary interest 2. Avoid criticism 3. Stress simplicity 4. Honor him 5. Practice unconditional love 6. Apply the golden rule.

Chapter 8: Respect Him If you want respect, give respect.

Chapter 9: Pray With Him Many problems in marriages exist because they don't depend on God for everything.

Chapter 10: Pray for Him Instead of nagging your husband, take it to God.

Chapter 11: Encourage Him A wife should be Chief Encourager to her husband.

Chapter 12: Minister Peace to Each Other Be quick to forgive, slow to anger, patient, and kind.

Chapter 13: Get Yourself a Black Negligee If you put your heart into your marriage your body will follow.

Chapter 14: Fitness is Appealing An appealing wife is one who is energetic, positive, youthful, attractive, healthy, exuberant, and full of vitality.

Chapter 15: Stay Attractive Real beauty stems from something deep inside, something God puts there, that comes through even the plainest shell.

Chapter 16: The Beauty of Holiness The most wonderful gift a wife can give her husband is to be a lady of fine character.

Chapter 17: Having Fun Together Learning to enjoy the differences instead of grinding your teeth can go a long way in your marriage.

Chapter 18: Through Tough Times Focus together on agreeing with the word of God and with each other.

Chapter 19: In Control - And Hating It Our wifely role is not to be head of the household. That is our husbands role as given by God. Trust God to build your home.

Chapter 20: When Opposites Attract Through discussion and loving compromise you may discover each others needs and how to meet them.

Chapter 21: My Brothers Middle Name is Sandpaper It is important to talk about what makes you angry and deal with it before the day is over.

Chapter 22: When He Doesn't Talk to You The greater language is the language of the heart.

Chapter 23: When He's Not a Christian Don't talk to him about God, talk to God about your husband!

Conclusion: In marriage we are not individuals. We are a team, partners for a purpose. Many times unrest in a marriage should not be blamed on your husband, but on the enemy, Satan.

Copyright © 1997 by Betty Malz.